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Many men assume women only want the wealthiest or strongest men as partners, when in reality there are many other qualities women look for when selecting potential mates.
Example: Good posture can make a man appear taller and more commanding, while having an attractive beard and clean-shaven facial features adds another element of attractiveness.
1. Good Looking
Good looks are one of the primary draws for women when selecting potential partners, and men with strong jawlines, neat beard trims and appealing skin tones are hard to resist.
No need to be Greek god-esque to possess an attractive physique, but taking care with your appearance and grooming yourself well are both crucial steps towards being attractive to women. She won't appreciate being around someone who appears untidy; rather she wants someone who takes pride in how he presents themselves.
2. Confident
Possessing strong self-assurance and believing in yourself are extremely attractive qualities. It shows you aren't afraid to speak out for what matters to you and stand up for what's right.
Awareness of your surroundings is also an attractive trait; it shows that you recognize that life exists beyond just your experiences, as well as having an understanding of other cultures and beliefs.
Selflessness is another attractive trait among women. This means always placing her needs before your own and going the extra mile for her.
3. Loyal
Loyalty is one of the primary factors that draw women to men. A loyal partner will protect your feelings and remain trustworthy; he won't tell others about your relationship or spread rumors about it.
At all times, they will stand by you through good and bad, not only as partners for life but as friends as well. He will respect your independence without using you for his own gain - something most women really desire in a partner.
4. Intelligent
Studies show that men appreciate intelligence. But this doesn't guarantee they will find you attractive; having intelligence doesn't guarantee they will find someone else more desirable.
Some women are perceived as unattractive due to their intelligence alone. Women whose identities lie with intellect can appear arrogant or flighty to men.
High value women find those with drive more appealing than resumes full of degrees and accomplishments. Confidence, humor, ambition, emotional intelligence, kindness, good listening skills, personal hygiene and fashion taste all attract women more readily than degrees and accomplishments alone.
5. Smart
Women tend to find men with high levels of intelligence more attractive; however, intelligence alone is not enough; they also prefer men who are motivated and passionate about their work.
Remember, correlation does not equate causality. Although it may appear as though height, looks, and wealth attract women, they're only the manifestations of that attraction - not cause. You can still be attractive without them all - having an appealing personality with respectable behavior will do just fine in terms of drawing women towards you!
6. Sense of Humor
Researchers have revealed that men and women often view humor differently. Men tend to prioritize a partner's ability to produce humor while women favor being open-minded when it comes to humorous displays.
An appreciation for humor is vitally important, because it demonstrates your awareness of life around you and helps reduce stress levels. A sense of humor also shows your ability to stay sane in difficult circumstances.
Be cautious not to use humor as an attempt to put someone down; women can usually detect when someone is not being honest with them.
7. Passionate
Women enjoy dating men who can make them laugh. This shows they care about life beyond themselves and don't think everything revolves around themselves.
Passionate women wear their hearts on their sleeves. They have goals they are willing to work towards achieving and are dedicated to reaching them.
Men are drawn to passionate women because of their strong, yet feminine personalities and breathtaking combination of confidence and vulnerability that makes them difficult to ignore. Additionally, these women keep things exciting in bed by showing signs of passion.
8. Risk Taker
Women find men who take initiative and can be relied upon to meet their commitments attractive. Furthermore, they appreciate those who can bring stability into a relationship by handling daily household tasks themselves.
Money, physical attributes and confidence may seem like the only things women find attractive about men; however, there's much more than meets the eye when it comes to what makes someone appealing - such as humor, intelligence, ambition or being good listeners can attract women towards particular individuals.
9. Good Listener
Women appreciate men who possess good listening skills; it allows them to talk freely with people while creating genuine connections that matter.
Empathy is another invaluable trait in men. According to workplace expert Amy Coccarelli from The Muse, empathy allows you to see situations from other people's points of view and respond with understanding and kindness.
An effective listener allows someone to complete their thoughts before interrupting. After they've spoken their piece, the listener waits until their personal balloon has deflated before providing any responses or opinions.
10. Selfless
Women want their partners to show they care about them as much as themselves. One way this can be demonstrated is by doing things such as opening doors for her or remembering her name.
